{"id":68,"date":"2022-09-29T03:01:10","date_gmt":"2022-09-29T03:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xantiago.fun\/index.php\/discography\/"},"modified":"2026-01-20T22:03:40","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T22:03:40","slug":"faq","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/xantiago.fun\/index.php\/faq\/","title":{"rendered":"Etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"68\" class=\"elementor elementor-68\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8fbd304 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8fbd304\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7657132\" data-id=\"7657132\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-86543c1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"86543c1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! 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elementor - v3.21.0 - 26-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Etiquette<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d57df86 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"d57df86\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5f441b5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5f441b5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6f909f8\" data-id=\"6f909f8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fd72512 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fd72512\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Make a good impression!<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-99087ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"99087ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 26-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p><em>Need to refresh your memory on good etiquette? or maybe this is your first time inquiring with me?<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a6d505 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a6d505\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><p><span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">INQUIRIES<\/span> &#8211; Please be courteous when reaching out and <span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">avoid using explicit language.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><strong>Remember, <span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">you are speaking to someone in a professional setting.<\/span><\/strong> I expect to be treated with the same respect I treat you with. This includes exercising basic manners when you speak to me, as well as remaining considerate of my time.\u00a0 A simple &#8216;Please&#8217; and &#8216;Thank you&#8217; goes a long way.<\/li><li>Make sure you read my messages thoroughly and answer any follow up questions I may have.\u00a0<\/li><li>Have some, um, questions you cannot ask discreetly? or need to describe your ideal scene in detail? <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/xantiago.fun\/index.php\/send-secure-messages\/\">Click here to send me a secure message!\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">LOCATION: <\/span>&#8211; <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #00ffff;\">In-calls are currently NOT available.<\/span><\/strong> This means you are to provide the space our session will take place in.<ul><li>This can be but not limited to: your house, apartment\/condo, or book a room at a hotel (minimum 3 stars).<\/li><li>NO vehicles or motels, please.<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><p><span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">OFFERINGS<\/span> &#8211; Please have your offering (cash preferred!) ready upon my arrival. Making me ask for it&#8230; is weird. Don&#8217;t make it weird.<\/p><ul><li>Your session does not start until after your payment has been received.<\/li><li>Tips and\/or gifts are not required but always welcome!\u00a0<\/li><li>If you&#8217;d like to gift me something, but aren&#8217;t sure what, <a href=\"https:\/\/throne.com\/xantiago\">check out my wish list \ud83d\udda4<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><p><span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">HYGIENE<\/span> &#8211; Be freshly showered with good minty breath, please!\u00a0<\/p><ul><li>It is entirely possible for me to request to do a quick rinse off before our session starts upon my arrival&#8230;especially during the warm season. This will not count against your time.<\/li><li>Have some mouth wash, a mint or some chewing gum! Weird smelling breath can be&#8230;. off-putting.<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><p><span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">SCREENING<\/span> &#8211; This is a requirement and non-negotiable.<\/p><ul><li><p>Your session will not be booked until you have passed screening.<\/p><\/li><li><p>I require real information for my own safety just like my platforms require my real information to verify myself in order to approve my accounts and allow me to post my content and ads.<\/p><\/li><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #ff99cc;\"><a style=\"color: #ff99cc; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/xantiago.fun\/index.php\/screening\/\">Click here to read more about my screening process.<\/a><\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">BOUNDARIES<\/span> &#8211; did you read the first section about inquiries? because <span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">those very much apply to this section too<\/span>. In addition to having, you know, <em>basic manners<\/em>, here are some things to keep in mind:<ul><li>If you are rude&#8211;whether unintentionally or not&#8211;and I call you out on it, I&#8217;m simply just letting you know <strong>&#8220;hey, not cool.&#8221;<\/strong> and I get it, we all make mistakes! <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">simply apologize and move on.<\/span> No need to over-explain yourself or assume I&#8217;m upset with you.\u00a0\u00a0<\/li><li>If there is anything else I am not comfortable doing or discussing, I will let you know and fully expect you to respect my wishes.<\/li><li><strong>SPEAK UP.<\/strong> If something doesn&#8217;t feel right, you need to adjust, or you simply want to move on to something different, <span style=\"color: #00ffff;\">please use your words and let me know.<\/span> Don&#8217;t try to grab me and physically move me around without having discussed it first!\u00a0<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: 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