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If you are not familiar with common etiquette to book with a provider,
I highly recommend doing your own research before proceeding with your inquiry.
Need to refresh your memory on good etiquette? or maybe this is your first time inquiring?
Either way, I’d like to give you a friendly reminder that–hey! I’m a person too! So let’s be cool with each other, please (:
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This might the first time you’ve ever met someone “like me” and may have a few questions–and that’s okay! That’s why I’ve put together a handful of frequently asked questions to make it a little easier for you.
FTM = Female to Male.
This means the gender I was assigned at birth was female–baby of the female sex; therefore, baby’s gender is female, right? More commonly, yes! but not always the case.
Remember this: Sex is what is (mostly) between your legs. Gender is what is between your ears.
Yes! There are just as many trans men as trans women out there. You’ve probably met several trans people throughout your life and not even known, and met some you suspected may have been trans but actually weren’t!
This is why stereotypes are detrimental to our community. We’re just regular people. We have hobbies, pay taxes, work any job like everyone else, and sometimes even stub our toes by accident!
I came to terms with my identity as a teenager, but did/could not officially begin transitioning until my last year of high school. I started hormones when I was 20 (college), legally changed my name at 21, had top surgery (mastectomy) at 22, and legally changed my “gender marker” when I was…uh…well, Covid started and it made everything take twice as long and time became irrelevant for a bit, but it was around that time.
There is a very common misconception that we just “have a sex change” overnight or something …like you come back to work one morning like “tadah! guess what I did!”
In reality, this is a loooong and slow process that can and will take years.
Transitioning technically never ends, but this is also depending on the person. If they are happy with themselves as they are at that point and don’t feel the need to undergo any more physical changes, then that’s on them to decide the “completion” of their transition.
What about it? Have I had it? No.
BUT Will I have it?
Also no.
Again, this is my own personal preference and decision. Every trans person feels different about their own bodies.
For me specifically: yes! absolutely! You are welcome to ask pretty much anything about my life as a trans person without having to walk on egg shells.
How are you supposed to learn if you can’t ask, right? Just remember to remain respectful and receptive. If you use an incorrect term or have incorrect information regarding the trans community, I won’t be mad but I can correct you.
No. Always ask for consent first. Not every trans person is comfortable or willing to talk about their transition. Picture somebody you know, but not that well, like a coworker or something. Now imagine them suddenly asking you about your genitals… weird, right?
I am happy to answer any questions regarding my services; however, it is very likely that I will refer you to this section if your question has already been answered here.
Oh! yeah hold on, let me just drop everything and come to you! –seriously though, this is one of the most commonly asked and most frustrating questions I get from strangers.
No, I’m not. I can’t answer your question until you’ve properly sent in your inquiry, ESPECIALLY if I don’t even know what day and time you are looking to schedule something.
As much as I would LOVE to be laying in bed ~*sensually*~ all day waiting for you to message, I have many responsibilities I have to put a lot of my time into–just like you. This is why it’s imperative for you to plan ahead and inquire appropriately.
I am based in Raleigh, NC. I can travel to other cities, but it would depend on the distance and how much travel expenses will be. If you are currently visiting or planning to visit, please remember to plan ahead and figure out your location and schedule during your visit BEFORE contacting me.
As long as you follow the same steps as any other client would, yes.
If you are asking to meet without compensation–Like one wise Randy Jackson once said:
“that’s gonna be a no from me, dawg.“
I do, in a private residency. If you feel more comfortable having our session in a hotel room, please let me know so we can discuss options.
My rates can be found under the “Booking” tab at the top menu.
If it’s within my rates: My time and companionship.
Anything lower than my rates and/or my deposit requirement will be treated as a tribute.
I do screen first time clients as a safety measure. You can find details (also) under the “Booking” tab on the top menu.
When you schedule a session with me, I am reserving that time JUST FOR YOU 🙂
This means that anyone else who may inquire for the same time will NOT be taking your spot–even if they have a bigger offer; however, if you cancel or reschedule your session, this will at least allow me to have something to fall back on.
Deposits are non-refundable but can go towards a rescheduled session. Cancellations are not applicable and another deposit will be required if you decide to book a session in the future.
Please email me at [email protected] to inquire about more/other services. You will be provided with different options, including my phone number only after a tribute has been sent to me.
You may also reach out via Telegram, where your message will be approved only after a tribute has been sent to me.
Tributes can be sent via Cash App.