About me

My name is Xan Tiago, but you can just call me Xan. I am based in Raleigh, North Carolina.

I am both a Latino immigrant as well as an American citizen. I may not be originally from the US, but I am an American Born Abroad. I was born and raised in South and Central America before I moved here as a teenager. 

I am a transgender man  (Female to Male or FTM) I started my transition over 10 years ago. I have been fortunate enough to have a supportive family and friends who cheered me on along my journey to get to where I am now. 

I enjoy talking and overall being an easy person to talk to. Small talk doesn’t bother me, especially if that allows for me to take a moment to compliment others or make someone laugh during our exchange.

I like finding new places to explore–and it doesn’t have to be somewhere crazy or luxurious. I see the wonder in the simple and/or small places, whether it’s a thrift shop, a bakery, or a park. 

I absolutely love animals. Always have. I currently have a female corgi and a small aquarium with a few danios and loaches. Do you have pets? tell me about your babies! Do you enjoy visiting farms? take me along with you! 

Food? Yes. 
I love all kinds of different foods. From homemade to fine dining. I am all for trying anything from anywhere, and even if I don’t end up liking something, at least I can learn to appreciate it, even if it’s not for me. 

I do not shy away from discussing sensitive topics, nor am I offended by questions you may have. I do my best to create and provide a safe space for everyone, as long as the same is provided for me. I don’t book sessions to judge my clients, but to allow them to unmask and enjoy their time with me as their authentic selves.

I am queer and enjoy being my genuine self with men, women, couples, and other queer/trans individuals. I am alcohol and 420 friendly, as well as kink and fetish friendly.

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